Aldy I'm 43 and I think I will never be in a relationship. And I have never had any type of long term relationship. But I'm wondering if there are any others in the same boat. In middle age, or nearing it. Try being in three ltr 10 yrs, 7 yrs, 6 yrs that ended in flames. Sometimes better to be a never was Fun loving romantic seeking lady to love for ltr a has lr. I will fully admit to being damaged goods.
I was physically and emotionally abused as a kid and despite years of therapy, I just cannot allow myself to let somebody in to the point where a long term relationship would work.
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I decided a long time ago just to accept it and try and live my live solo rather than dump my baggage on somebody else. It just wouldn't be fair to them. AT this point, I don't mind being alone. The idea of being with somebody seems too foreign to me.
I'm 33 and I've never been in one. Honestly, I haven't even thought about it. It did bother me when I was in my late 20s.
Sometimes I wonder if I ever start looking for a relationship, if the other person will find this to be a red flag. I felt the same way OP. I had some short term relationships, dated a lot meaning slutand met my partner when I was We've been together 14 years now. I'm Martinsburg sexy women and have never been in an LTR.
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I enjoy my solitude, I have two dogs who keep me company and I have friends and family to do things with. I don't totally rule out a relationship, but at this point, it isn't a priority - at least, I haven't met someone tlr I could spend a significant amount of time with.
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So fast forward and I'm in my 50s, with the blush off the rose and I really don't feel like I missed out. As someone posted I have my family and friend and that feels ok. It might not be perfect but it's fine. You're not alone, OP. I haven't been in a longterm relationship for 14 years.
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Kind of depressing since I see family members and friends coupling up. I feel awful, like I'm cursed. Every time I have a date with llve new guy I like, something comes up and they want to break it off or something happens. I've had only 2 longterm relationships, the first one lasting 10 years the other 3 years. After and between those two times were affairs that didn't go past Sexy Springfield Illinois women porn months.
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That seems really odd to me I've been in a few relationships, but either I get bored or they get bored, and we move on, usually within three months, often within three weeks. I seem to attract the wrong types. Two of my longest term relationships were with "straight" guys -- fuck that! I've never had much interest in anyone who ever pursued me. I had one guy who'd send me flowers, bottles of champagne, take me to piano Fun loving romantic seeking lady to love for ltr and Lonely lady seeking sex North Charleston arranged for the singer to sing strategic songs "at" me, designed to make me fall in love with him.
It took me years, and a cross-country move, to extract myself completely from that mess the guy I was in love with and I would have sex anytime we ran into each other, and I felt no guilt, as the flower-sender had stolen him from me. It really was years before I truly recuperated from that mess.
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