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There was a solution, of course — to buy five bottles. With drink, there always seems to be a solution. Drummond asked me about my family. Was there alcoholism in my family? I thought about my family.

My brother drinks robustly. My mother hardly drinks. A glass of wine here and there. Maybe two at a wedding.

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Lewis has written, brilliantly, about his own experiences with alcohol, opiates and several other drugs in his book Memoirs of an Addicted Brain. When the golden lager or shimmering vodka slipped down my throat and entered my brain, Lewis explained, it changed my mood by tampering with several neurotransmitters — the chemicals that enable neurons, or brain cells, to communicate with each other.

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It slows down the hamster wheel of anxiety. When you drink, another neurotransmitter, dopamine, is sent all over the brain. Dopamine is the neurotransmitter of anticipation, of excitement, of wanting more.

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You find yourself in a difficult situation. You want to drink, but drinking is making you ill. You feel ill, but you want a drink.

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You are full of wanting. I n her memoir Drinking: A Love Story, the late American writer Caroline Knapp said that there was a fine line between problem drinking and full-on alcoholism, but that, as a drinker, you never see it. They are lying to me, they are lying to themselves. These conversations make me angry, largely with my former self. I sometimes wonder when I started lying to myself. At school I was full of bravado: In my 20s the bravado Looking to have drinks this weekend existed; drinking carried a certain status.

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