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Some couples try to include me in events, but I do feel like the third wheel sometimes," explains Gertrude. Tracy is lucky to have a travel companion but she gets grief for that: I don't get it.

We enjoy each other's company -- who else are we supposed to spend time with?

Please include me in your social plans -- I promise, I won't "throw off" the balance Navigating social occasions can be challenging, even demeaning at times. I remember being invited to a wedding of a colleague and being seated with her grandparents and their friends because there were 'no other single women there' when I would have much preferred to be with young couples. Married and looking for real freinds

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Stephanie explains, "They are anxious to match me up with someone they know, their only criteria being that he is also single -- no regard for my likes or dislikes.

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My future is no worse than yours -- there are no guarantees in life The women I interviewed have pretty realistic perspectives on the future.

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I always wish new couples a long and wonderful life together, but please don't be cocky because nothing is guaranteed. Please believe me when I say it: I am okay Women who Bi Lincoln looking for sex single in midlife want the rest of us to know that, despite life's normal ups and downs, they are doing just fine.

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I am happy with the life I have built and am lucky to be able to afford most things that I want on one income. As my nest empties, I see endless possibilities in my next chapter.

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