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I ask a girl out just one time and anything other than a YES! Not really into playing this game of trying to convince someone to give me a shot. If she means no when saying it, then the no is accepted as it should be. If it was an attempt to play hard to get, I have better things to do than decipher vague signals. Oh yes, it goes both ways though. As unromantic as that sounds, Seeking cool chick to just talk to love it. My google calendar rules my life, if it isn't on there I'm not going to remember.
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I've had people text me back 3 days later but act like I just texted them 5 minutes ago. I don't pursue those relationships. I don't have the patience to wait 3 days for a winky-face emoji. Most probably they have someone else but fall back to you when it doesn't work out. Right, but I'm approaching 30 and have Horny women in Alpine had a girl just tell me no straight up.
They'll always agree to plans only to cancel last minute or just stop answering their phones.
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Same with the guy that hits on you when you're clearly not interested. He hits on 20 women a day, so a lot of women have run into that guy. On top of that, "I had a creepy stalker" is the kind of thing you remember vividly, while "a guy came up to me at a party and talked to me, there wasn't a spark, and he walked away after a couple minutes" is the sort of memory that's gone after a few hours.
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And the girls that finally do concede to this tactic are the reason shitty guys keep applying this tactic. The girls that have the ovaries to say "no, fuck off" are the ones that get to pay for it. Also not to put too much blame on women but women tend to give very vague, noncommittal no's, like instead of turning Seeking cool chick to just talk to down they'll just constantly be busy.
It's easy to convince yourself that she really is just busy and not gently turning you down. True, though I do have a little sympathy for how hard it is to turn someone down resolutely, especially if they're someone you'll still see on a regular basis.
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