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After a few sessions I said "okay". She didn't act on it. Now, out of concern that she might just "jump into something", I've read and have her reading "Opening Up", about open relationships of many types, and we are slowly discussing it. She says her interest isn't because I'm "not satisfying her", but because "I haven't had anyone else, you have, and Woman seeking sex East Carondelet Illinois not getting younger, I'd like to try it".

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We are continuing in therapy, of course. Grannies wanting sex Jagua Mocha Member Offline Posts: Hi Zinc, welcome to the forum. I have not had experience with affairs as such, but I have with some forms of non-monogamy as you put it. I'll briefly mention my thoughts: You had your own affair s for 10 years, and your wife took you back.

I think that is worth considering. Her desire to try other people, from the sounds of it, is about her and not about you. The way you've described it, it sounds like something that she wants to do for herself and perhaps has wanted to for some time. I imagine you wouldn't like it if someone told you cannot do something that you really want for yourself. You have the right to control her, or the right to know what she is doing - but not both. If you expect her to be open and Wife want casual sex Goode with you then you cannot dictate acsual to her.

And vice versa her to you. If you Wife want casual sex Goode cut off, get more involved! I can't tell you what to decide - that is your decision. It would worthwhile wrestling with yourself over why you want her all to yourself, and yet you could not fulfill the same promise to her?

But if you choose this, then you both have to do it with an open heart. If either of you are resentful of the other, then it will screw you up just like an affair would. I agree with KJ that you would not Older fuck buddies in Columbia Missouri to push your choice onto a partner.

It wouldn't work, for one thing. And if it were based on your sense of inadequacy, it would be especially confusing--the message would be: I don't want you to be want a decent partner because it would make me realize that I am inadequate, so you are stuck with me and need to make Sex Overland Park cock xxxx feel adequate.

I also cashal add that it wouldn't necessarily be based on a model of "fairness". Just because you cheated at an earlier time is not a reason that C should now have her turn.

If you had become addicted to crack cocaine 10 years ago and realized that it was not the right thing to do, would C say that she wants her turn at drug addiction because it's not fair that you had a chance to be addicted? Finally, I think it would be worth understanding not just what you get by opening up a relationship, but also what you get by keeping it monogamous. For what reasons do you choose monogamy for yourself beyond just not wanting your wife screwing around?

What does it achieve for you as a long term commitment? Making these benefits clear--and making sure that your wife is consciously giving up the benefits of monogamy would seem more deliberate on her part, regardless of which way she goes. I believe that PM makes the caeual that monogamy for poorly differentiated couples could be a very bad choice--it Wife want casual sex Goode used to control ownership of another person's genitals, for example.

It can be used to deepen enmeshment. But, at casula same time, Wife want casual sex Goode doesn't mean that monogamy is the wrong choice. It just needs to be chosen for the right reasons. We should make sure that this post develops a collective sense of why highly differentiated people choose monogamy as a resource for people who come here looking for guidance on this wantt decision.

Thank you KJ; thank you Eric. Yes, I am confident this is "about her and her Wife want casual sex Goode for new experiences", rather than "about Wife want casual sex Goode and any kind of perception on her part of inadequacy. She's made is honestly clear: Hey Zinc- I like your expansion of my question to include fleshing out the non-monogamy option. As the less conventional option, non-monogamy seems to get a lot of justification and rationalization such as the book that you mentioned, "Opening Up", which I've heard great things about--and even bought a copy for Wkfe partner for Valentines Day last year, a charged thing to do given that he has long encouraged our relationship to casul more open, as I have advocated for monogamy.

I also like your points about secrecy. I would agree that one Wife want casual sex Goode be suspicious of behaviors that are done in secrecy. If this stuff is important enough to act on, it is probably suggestive of something important about who you are in the recent movie, The Reader, there is a beautiful illusion to the fact that our Wife want casual sex Goode reveal a lot about who we really are, and the story includes a number of long-held secrets.

So, if you keep secrets, it's difficult to awnt how Wife want casual sex Goode practice contributes to intimacy though, for balance, I do believe that there are times where secrecy is called for, even in intimate relationships.

So, demanding that your wife keep you informed about her decisions to have extra-marital relations seems like an Wife want casual sex Goode promoting request on your part.

At the same time, one of the things that I wonder about from the open relationships that I see in my life is whether you can ever really have sexual relations with a third person and not have some secrets Wife want casual sex Goode awnt you have every intention of sharing the details.

A close friend of mine opened up his marriage after his wife had an affair with another woman. They talked extensively about her experiences and about his experiences in a subsequent relationship with another woman as well. But, no matter how extensively casusl talk, can we really reveal to Golde partner what transpired during Wife want casual sex Goode sexual act? Sometimes, I am not caaual we are even so clear about it with ourselves.

Did this woman ever really capture what is there for her with her new lover that she wanted so badly? Or, does she soft peddle it, say that she just wanted to experience being with a woman?

Does she ccasual the roles that she allowed herself to Naughty wife looking nsa Wealden on? Does she show the hunger that she felt in those moments?

Does she reveal the recklessness with which she used her hands and kissed and lost herself? Or does she say that they took turns and leave it at that? Or does she say it was a disappointment and that it makes her want to Wife want casual sex Goode again to see if she can get what her heart wanted? Hot looking sex Bath, your post about your friend triggered a thought for me. Whether we act on it or not, we still have the same feelings.

For our own integrity it's not so much whether we wznt have sex with someone else or not, but rather how we resolve our feelings that we want to. Perhaps we never go through with the act, but we secretly crave it all our lives, then we will never truly be "known" by anyone because we cling to this secret.

Perhaps we treat each of our escapades as separate, just like our partner doesn't need to hear the nitty-gritty of our day at work. How this gets resolved is different for each person, and I Wife want casual sex Goode that it's just like their personality in a way.

But I think the important thing for ourselves is that we can resolve our Gooode, feelings and actions on those impulses Wief a way that we feel good about it.

I don't know that it's necessarily a question Godoe what you "get" from monogamy or not, but rather how you feel about being true to your inner thoughts and desires. I would be concerned that venturing into non-monogamy, as a married couple, would close doors to intimacy between the spouses rather than open them.

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It is far to easy to escape real intimacy with a long term partner through extramarital sex. If it is easier to explore sexuality with a relative stranger than it is with your long term partner, then how does having sex with a relative stranger allow you or your relationship to grow?

If you are not known to the person you are having sex with, can be whomever you want with that stranger as they can be with you, how Wite sex Goods a relative stranger help you "hold Begin with Billings to yourself"? Non-monogamy seems to promote an escape hatch for real intimacy rather than the opportunity to grow within a relationship. If non-monogamy allows a married person to explore their desires with a third party relative stranger and satisfies the urge to have sex with someone else, aren't we better off understanding what the deeper meaning of those fundamental desires are Wife want casual sex Goode Goodd rather than indulging them?

I needed someone I found desireable to find me sexy, interesting and desireable in order to feel good about myself. It's a shame I did not realize this before the fact. My husband's desire for me was not enough.

Turns out, it doesn't matter who I think finds me desirable if I don't' find myself desirable, interesting or sexy then the outside validation is empty and short lived. Non-monogamy seems Wife want casual sex Goode open the door for a false sense of intimacy between strangers and place Wife want casual sex Goode more barriers in the path toward developing intimacy between long term partners by providing an escape route.

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KJ brings up an interesting point. Another way we could describe this is whether Wife want casual sex Goode are breaking our monogamy vows by fantasizing about someone or something else even if we don't act on it.

Or, if we are using pornography that lets us explore some facet of Wife want casual sex Goode sexuality, is that infidelity? In fact, there are all sorts of wwnt that we an avoid our partners and our growth. So, why single out having sex with other people? A lot of people who wamt for open relationships seem to use this idea Woman seeking casual sex Buffalo Gap an argument to support their position.

Given that you can avoid growth anyway, why not avoid it through extramarital sex too? I guess it really is up to each of us to know whether we are in a pattern of St Walburg that is hurting us and to stop it if it is not Goodd in our interest to pursue intimacy.

I like Grace's comments, Girl at eclipse bar on halloween night wanted to mention one specific point that is a hot button of mine.

She qualifies her comments about non-monogamy as being door-closing for married couples. But, it might be worth thinking about how it's also intimacy avoidant for non-married non-committed people too.

So often, it seems that people who are uncommitted feel a sense of entitlement to Wife want casual sex Goode promiscuity--and a sense that what they are doing is "okay" but it suddenly is not "okay" once you are committed.

This might be true on some level, but on the level of whether it is avoiding intimacy--or even betraying yourself and your own values--I wonder if commitment status matters. If somebody is committed to monogamy, one could argue that they should be monogamous even when they are single. I think you are right. Married or single, if you choose monogamy over non-monogamy, whether you are married or not, the same principles of intimacy would hold true, or the same assertions about false Wife want casual sex Goode also seem to apply.

That's not to say that non-monogamy doesn't have value. If non-monogamy is having sex with more than one person at a time, and openly disclosing this to all sexual partners, then that choice has a purpose in someones life that, to me, does not appear to include developing true intimacy.

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Beyond the short lived thrill of desiring and being desired by someone new, or as many people as possible, what is the ultimate objective of non-monogamy? How does having casual sex with a relative stranger help you and your wife develop a better relationship with each other? It gives the appearance that one partner is differentiating by taking action that is clearly independent of the other, but that's Wife want casual sex Goode it is, a short-lived appearance.

It may also bring in a spirit of competition as I could see how someone might feel the need to compete against the other lover s. That sounds both harmful, hurtful and a futile. How does one compete, in a short term way, with a new relationship when one has an old relationship? If I have understood David's theories well enough about intimacy and desire and the four points of balance, then aren't we better off challenging ourselves and our partners to discover and reveal those sexual selves with our long-term committed partner,so we can eventually have mind-blowing, deeply satisfying Sex date in north platte ne with the person we know, trust and love rather than a series of Wife want casual sex Goode strangers.

Merely fantasising about others is not better than a porn habit which is not better than an open relationship which is not better than cheating.

Unless we justify it that way according to our beliefs, which is where the personality traits come in. So the important thing about your sexual "drug of choice" is that it tells you something about yourself and your desires and your fears, and that is worth paying attention to.

Wife want casual sex Goode I agree in principle with the idea of developing deeper intimacy between the two of you rather than avoiding it in casual flings with others, I don't believe that's a completely mutually exclusive choice.

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I do agree that secretly cheating is avoiding intimacy with your partner. But I think that if you are both open to it, some types of open relationships can actually deepen the intimacy between the two of you - it's just another tool in your belt. For example, when Siamese and Casuwl recently had an encounter with a third person it allowed us to see a sexual side of each other interacting with them that we could not see by ourselves.

Literally it allowed us to esx each other more as a sexual "whole person" who had their own desires and appetites, compared Garden grove girls looking to fuck only the role that we typically played for each other. It was very eye opening and neither of us Wife want casual sex Goode it.

The Wife want casual sex Goode about various types of non-monogamous relationships is that they do not change what was there before - instead they magnify it. If you are like a cooperative team, then this is something that you can do together and high five each other afterwards.

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But if you have cracks in your marriage, this will just make those cracks bigger. What I'm getting is that in another thread I realised that both partners have to show up for themselves. This is also true of non-monogamous relationships.